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Melissa's avatar

this is so very much what i needed to read this monday morning. hope your various and varied balm-needing things are moving in the right direction (no teeth pun intended but 🤷🏼‍♀️). thanks for this.

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Lee Tilghman's avatar

love this <3

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Erin Boyle's avatar

ty!

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Kalie's avatar

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 grateful, grateful

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Heather Itzla's avatar

Wowwww Erin - excellent post

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Judit's avatar

I really appreciate your writing, always looking forward to read new posts! ❤️

Re braces: I had the lingual kind, and practicing the Rainbow passage helped me to get rid of the lisp. Definitely takes a week or two but it will get better! :-)

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Juliet's avatar

Thank you, Erin! A salve for the soul, your reflections are!

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Sonia Singh's avatar

❤️🥲❤️

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Erin Boyle's avatar

😘😘

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Caitlin's avatar

DAMN there is a lot of wisdom here! Really appreciate all these reminders ❤️

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Christie's avatar

I'm sorry to hear about the hard spots. I do agree so much with the other commenters that your writing is a balm for my soul. I've loved it since I discovered your blog in 2014. It's like immediate peace as soon as I read or log on to your blog. For this reason, I was happy to subscribe immediately to do my small part to sustain you and your family. Hope everything improves for you!

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Erin Boyle's avatar

thanks so much, Christie. this means so much, truly.

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Lauren's avatar

L O V E.

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Erin Boyle's avatar

love Y O U.

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Judith Ross's avatar

It looks like I'm not the only one who has been feeling *not great* these past weeks. So sorry you are in it, too, Erin. But just seeing the title of this post in my in-box was a balm to all the big feelings I've been having lately. Hope things start to look up for all of us very soon. (Is 68 too old to get one's teeth straightened? Asking for a friend.)

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Erin Boyle's avatar

Never too late! My mom got hers fixed a few years ago!

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Christy's avatar

I need to not lurk so much and tell you more often how very much I appreciate your writing. I'm always comforted by your thoughts and words, so matter what they are about. This too shall pass!

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Erin Boyle's avatar

lurk all you want! but also, thanks so much for this.

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Katie Wickliff's avatar

Needed this, especially today

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Erin Boyle's avatar

so glad!

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China Hoffman's avatar

Skipped ahead to comment that a salt water rinse is extremely helpful for soothing/healing mouth wounds from aligners - and you will really get used to them within about a week if I remember correctly, and won't have mouth sores anymore. I also "fixed my teeth" as an adult, and while it was very annoying, I went from dental visits where I was always asked if I flossed, reminded on the importance of brushing, etc. to having dentists comment every single time on how clean and healthy my teeth look. It turns out that it is much easier to clean your back teeth if they are not totally overcrowded!

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Erin Boyle's avatar

yessss! thanks for the encouragement...this is...rough.

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annette's avatar

you are the balm! with every post ( pardon the pun)

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Erin Boyle's avatar

hahaha! ultimate 90s dad joke. i love.

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Celeste's avatar

Wishing you all the balms in the borough! I will just echo your reader - I am always comforted by your honesty and care. It always helps me notice what I have around me, and take a breath.

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Erin Boyle's avatar

so lovely to hear, celeste! A BALM!!!

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